seeing my dad in yorktown after a year away

Friday, August 2:  After leaving Sarah in Richmond, I drive down to Yorktown, as always via the Colonial Parkway along the York River.  I arrive at my dad’s house, after not having seen him for the last year while I was living and working in the Sultanate of Oman.  We have a lovely visit, except I’m sad to see him having a hard time getting around now because his knees are breaking down.  He’s 83 years old, so he’s doing well for his age, but I can see just a little slowdown in his movement.

the house where I grew up, in Marlbank Farms, Yorktown, Virginia
the house where I grew up, in Marlbank Farms, Yorktown, Virginia

He seems very happy though and is as talkative as ever; he and his wife Shirley even tell me all the details of my niece Kelsey’s wedding, which I sadly missed on July 13 because I was traveling through Spain and Portugal.  They make me a healthy dinner of pork tenderloin, stuffing with gravy (it’s like Thanksgiving in summer!) and collard greens (such a southern dish) and then Dad shows me his list of hundreds of DVDs he’s recorded, mostly British shows.  I really am glad to see my dad so happy, and I think Shirley is really good for him. They still flirt with each other as if they’re teenagers. 🙂

Dad and his wife Shirley in the front yard
Dad and his wife Shirley in the front yard

I’m trying to slowly but surely reconnect with my family and other people I had in my life before going to live abroad in February 2010, when I went to Korea for a year (catbird in korea) and again in September 2011, when I went to the Sultanate of Oman for nearly two years (a nomad in the land of nizwa).

Dad and me :-)
Dad and me 🙂

I spend the night in my little brothers’ old bedroom in the old house (my old room seems to have become a study/exercise room, although I don’t think anyone ever uses it) and take off on Saturday morning to visit Williamsburg and my old school: The College of William & Mary.

For posts I’ve written about Yorktown and Marlbank Farms, see below:
yorktown, virginia: my hometown
an evening in yorktown with dear friends
marlbank farms

I hope to reconnect slowly but surely with everyone I’ve missed in the last two years.  Hopefully, you’ll hear from me soon!

yorktown, virginia: my hometown

Wednesday, August 22:  Yorktown, with its tiny population of 220 people (2000 census), is the county seat of York County, Virginia.  Its claim to fame is the siege and subsequent surrender of British General Cornwallis to American General George Washington on October 19, 1781 in the American Revolutionary War.  Cornwallis’s surrender to a combined American and French force in the Siege of Yorktown led to the end of major hostilities in North America.

Cornwallis Cave: where Cornwallis hid during the Revolutionary War??

According to Remember Yorktown, Cornwallis’s cave, located along the water front, is reported to have been the hiding place of Cornwallis during the siege at Yorktown during the Revolutionary War in 1781.  However, the York County Historical Committee says that contrary to the legend that describes this as Cornwallis’ hiding place at the end of the 1781 siege, it was probably used by a British gun crew to defend the river from the French Fleet. The site is National Park Service property.

the Yorktown Victory Monument

The Yorktown Victory Monument was authorized by Continental Congress, October 29, 1781, just after news of the surrender reached Philadelphia.  Actual construction began 100 years later and was completed in 1884.  The original figure of Liberty atop the victory shaft was severely damaged by lightning.  A new figure replaced it in 1956. The shaft of Maine granite is 84 feet tall; Liberty adds another 14 feet.

a ring of figures on the Yorktown Victory Monument
a view of the York River & one of the schooners from the hilltop where the monument stands

Yorktown also figured prominently in the American Civil War (1861–1865), serving as a major port to supply both northern and southern towns, depending upon who held Yorktown at the time (Wikipedia: Yorktown, Virginia).

the inviting Hornsby House Inn in historic Yorktown

Yorktown has a lot of historic houses including the Hornsby House Inn, a bed & breakfast that has been recently renovated.  It looks similar in style to many houses in the town. (Hornsby House Inn)

Side view of the Hornsby House Inn

I grew up in York County, not Yorktown proper, but as a child and teenager, my friends and I spent a lot of time at Yorktown Beach and on the Yorktown Battlefield, at the Yorktown Pub, on boats on the York River, and at Nick’s Seafood Pavilion, a landmark restaurant until it was damaged severely in a hurricane.  Every year on October 19, Yorktown Day, we went to the town to participate in the festivities, to gawk at the French sailors who came to town, and to eat Brunswick Stew.

this is the park at the far east end of Yorktown Beach where we had our senior class picnic. One of the schooners from the dock is sailing on the York River.
the Yorktown Pub

There are lots of great things to see in Yorktown.  The town is part of the national treasure known as the Historic Triangle of Yorktown, Williamsburg and Jamestown.  Yorktown lies at the eastern end of the Colonial Parkway, built between 1930 and 1957, which links the three communities, shielding drivers from views of commercial development; a major effort has been made to keep traffic signs and other modern roadside items to a minimum, and to make essential signs unobtrusive. There are often views of wildlife in addition to York River panoramas at several pull-offs.

Yorktown Beach with the George P. Coleman bridge in the background
Yorktown Beach in the direction of where the York River empties into the Chesapeake Bay
Yorktown Beach
Yorktown Beach with the fishing pier and Amoco Oil Refinery in the distance
Sea grasses and the George P. Coleman Bridge
Don’t break the rules!

The Yorktown Victory Center, which is the American Revolutionary War museum, shows our country’s evolution from colonial status to nationhood through thematic exhibits and living-history interpretation in a Continental Army encampment and 1780s farm.  People can visit the Yorktown Battlefield, Moore House, Nelson House, Custom House and Grace Episcopal Church.  If you want to visit Yorktown, please see: Historic Yorktown.