Friday, August 12: Welcome to my almost-finished house for our final happy hour of summer! This is our last time to mingle before I head off to Iceland tomorrow. Come right in, get comfortable and I’ll mix you up a drink. I’m sorry to say I haven’t graduated from my Moscow Mules (vodka, lime juice and ginger beer); I’ve been quite content to drink these since our last cocktail hour. I imbibed on some strawberry daiquiris when I visited my sister in Maryland this month. If you’d like one of those, I’d be happy to whip one up, or I can offer wine, beer, or even some soda or seltzer water with lime if you prefer a non-alcoholic beverage.
It’s been the most hot and humid summer imaginable, so I think we’ll just sit on our new counter stools at the bar. They finally arrived after our last happy hour. 🙂 It’s nice and cool inside, so it will be much more pleasant. I’m sad to admit that we’ve hardly been able to use the screened-in porch because it’s been over 90 degrees and very humid every day.
Tell me about your summer. Have you been on vacation or explored new areas close to home? Have you indulged in any daydreams? Have you changed jobs or gone into retirement? Have you seen any good movies or read any page-turners? Have you tried out any new restaurants or cooked anything wonderful at home? How’s your garden? Have you had any special family gatherings?
I’ve been to a couple of movies, some wonderful, and others not so Absolutely Fabulous. My favorite was the intense and moving Dheepan, about an ex-Tamil fighter who cobbles together a makeshift family to escape his war-torn Sri Lanka. He becomes a refugee in France. His “wife” and “daughter” are strangers to him and to each other, but they must pretend to be a family in order to get papers to leave. He ends up in France working as caretaker for a rough property where a lot of criminal activity is taking place. He doesn’t want any part of it, so he keeps his head down and tries to avoid being noticed. The movie shows what it’s like for a refugee family to arrive in a new country without knowledge of language or customs, and to be cast into difficult, and even terrifying, situations. I think it should be required watching, especially for certain people who want to close borders and build walls, those who would prefer to ignore the suffering of others. This kind of sentiment is running rampant in the U.S. these days, and I find it appalling, heartless, and sickening.
I went to see Absolutely Fabulous and though it was funny in parts, I found myself getting annoyed by its overall silliness. Actually, the only reason I went to see it was because I had met Joanna Lumley in Oman in 2012, and I wanted to see her again. 🙂 (absolutely fabulous: a surprise encounter with patsy stone)
At home, on Netflix, we finally watched the cute movie, The Secret Life of Walter Mitty, partly filmed in Iceland. I always enjoy watching movies and reading books that take place in our holiday destination. The movie was quite charming, and really got me psyched for our trip.
We also saw the movie Concussion, starring Will Smith as accomplished pathologist Dr. Bennet Omalu. He uncovers the truth about brain damage in football players who suffer repeated concussions in the course of normal play. Though I don’t often enjoy movies about sports, I found this exceptionally well done as it depicted the relentless attacks on him by the NFL, a powerful organization. I’m always for the underdog!
On the last weekend in July, Mike went with his high school friends to Ohio, so I took the opportunity to visit Sarah and Alex in Richmond. Sarah moved into a new apartment at the beginning of June and I hadn’t been able to see it yet, so after we met for lunch at Mom’s Siam, we went straight to her house to check it out. She hasn’t gotten it fully furnished or together yet, but she’s slowly getting settled.
Alex and Ariana met Sarah and I for dinner at The Black Sheep, mainly because I had a craving for their marvelous chicken and dumplings. We had a great time. Alex looked quite handsome with a new haircut given to him by Ariana. 🙂
By the way, we found out our prodigal son Adam is now in Maui. We knew his retreat in British Columbia ended on July 11, and we assumed he was still in Vancouver until we got a call from him on Tuesday, July 19, telling us he had bought a one-way ticket to Maui on July 12. He’d been there a week already and was working on a banana plantation for a room and fruit. When he called, he had just started working at a hostel four hours a day in exchange for a room. He eats food from the free shelf, where visitors leave behind food. He’s always believed in living in a world without money, and I guess he’s doing just that, sort of! I don’t understand it and never will, but he’s got to live life according to his principles and I have to say I admire him in some ways. On the other hand, I know he has credit card debt, so he’s not fiscally responsible nor is he actually living without money!
Thank goodness, he’s been good about calling us once a week to let us know what’s going on. He seems very happy and says he wishes he had gone to Hawaii back in October when he first thought of going. I wish he had; he would have saved us and himself a lot of money and heartbreak. Who knows what will become of him, but I’m happy that for the time being he seems at peace and is actually working, even if not for money. This past Tuesday night, he called to tell us he is starting to work for a ceramic artist helping to sell his very expensive ceramics; he gets an hourly wage and some commission on any sales. Slowly, slowly. I’m trying hard to have no expectations and to continue to send love his way.
On Friday morning, Sarah and I went for a hike on the Buttermilk Trail along the James River. The trail was quite muddy as it had rained overnight. We then went shopping at Target, where I bought her some new bedding, a hair dryer, and bath towels, all of which she needed and was thrilled to have. We also had lunch together.
Later that afternoon, I drove an hour south and visited with my dad and stepmother in Yorktown. We had dinner together and chatted until I went up to bed to read my book, State of Wonder by Ann Patchett. I hardly slept all night because I was near the end and couldn’t put it down. My lack of sleep made it hard to get off to an early start, as I planned, to drive to Salisbury, Maryland to visit my sister Joan on Saturday morning.
Here’s my review of State of Wonder on Goodreads: I loved this book about Dr. Marina Singh’s journey into the Amazon jungle to find her former professor, Dr. Annick Swenson, as well as to find answers to the questions surrounding the death of her colleague, Dr. Anders Eckman. They all work for Vogel, a pharmaceutical company in Minnesota, and Marina has worked with Anders for 7 years in a small lab. Forty-two-year-old Marina is involved in a kind of secret relationship with 60-year-old Mr. Fox, the CEO of Vogel, who is not a doctor but an administrator. She calls him Mr. Fox, which speaks to the type of arm’s-length relationship they have. Mr. Fox sends Marina to look for Dr. Swenson because her research to develop a drug in the Amazon is taking too long and Vogel is getting impatient with her lack of communication about her progress. Dr. Swenson is doing research on how the Lakashi women can bear children even into their 70s. Marina’s other mission is to find out what happened to Anders and to possibly recover his body to send back to Minnesota.
Of course, I love any kind of story that takes place in exotic locales, with characters I can understand. This is an adventure and awakening story, a kind of journey into the “heart of darkness;” I found it immensely compelling and I love Ann Patchett’s writing.
I’m now reading And the Mountains Echoed by Khaled Hosseini, which I’m enjoying, as well as a book my sister recommended by Dan Harris of Good Morning America: 10% Happier: How I Tamed the Voice in My Head, Reduced Stress Without Losing My Edge, and Found Self-Help That Actually Works. I’m also making my way slowly through The Mathews Men by Bill Geroux; though it’s well-written and interesting, my books of choice are not normally non-fiction.
In Salisbury, we sat out at Joanie’s pool bar, where my brother-in-law Steve served us up some mixed drinks. My nephew Seth and his girlfriend, Julia, hung out with us too. It was fun to visit with my sister and to hang out by her pool on Sunday too. 🙂
On August 4, after a number of failed attempts to meet in May and June, I finally met with a lady who runs a wine touring company. She asked if I’d like to try out being a tour guide for her company. I agreed to give it a try on Saturday, August 6. I went with tour-guide Jim, who showed me the ropes; we took a group of ten 30-something ladies on a bachelorette tour of 3 wineries. Our first stop was Zephaniah Farm Vineyard, where the owner warmly welcomes guests into the main tasting room in the living room of her c.1820 house.
Next we stopped at Stone Tower Winery, set on 306 acres atop Hogback Mountain. This is a large more commercial enterprise, and though beautiful, was not as appealing to me as the other two more intimate wineries.
The tasting room was quite chilly, so we ate lunch in a cavernous and only a little-less-chilly room with live music. We couldn’t easily sit outside as it was hot, humid and spitting rain sporadically. The young ladies seemed to be having a wonderful time. This venue is much less homey than the other two, although the setting is lovely.
Our last stop was The Barns at Hamilton Station Vineyards, a family owned and operated winery housed in a refurbished dairy farm. The restored hundred and six-year-old stone and wood bank barn has been transformed into a tasting room, surrounded by eleven acres of rolling hills and woods.
The tour was fun and the owner has booked me for two tours in September. It’s very occasional work, she has told me, which is fine by me.:-)
This week, we’re having our entire basement painted. It hasn’t been painted since we bought the house in 1994 and it was sorely in need of refurbishing. Our boys grew up hanging out with their friends down there, and you can only imagine what disrepair it was in. There were several holes punched in the wall from some wild activities. As soon as we return from Iceland, the whole basement will also be re-carpeted, and with a new sectional we just had delivered, it will become Mike’s “man-cave.” I’ve gently nudged him out of the living room, where I have my desk and computer. Now we’ll both have space to work and not be crowded together into one corner of the living room. 🙂
The house projects never seem to end! It seems they have been going on all year, but I guess it’s to be expected after so many years of neglect.
Several weeks ago, I received my refurbished Canon Rebel back from Canon USA Inc. and I hadn’t had time to try it out. I’ve needed to decide which camera to take to Iceland, my Canon or my trusty old Olympus. Wednesday, I finally took the Canon out to Burnside Farms, where the sunflowers are now in bloom. I didn’t take my Olympus, because I’ve already taken sunflower pictures with it in the past at McKee-Beshers Wildlife Management Area: an afternoon with light-crazed sunflowers. Below are all the pictures I took with the Canon. I’d love to know your opinion. It seems to me that the pictures are sharper than they were before, but too many of them were overexposed and I had to adjust them in post-processing. Any hints from the photographers out there? I’d love to hear advice.
Below this batch of Canon pictures are pictures taken with my iPhone 6s. Which do you think are better? I think I’ve pretty much decided to leave my Canon at home and take my much-used and dependable Olympus to Iceland.
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Here are the photos taken with the iPhone.
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It’s pretty sad when iPhone pictures are better than a camera for which I paid $400, as well as another $300 for a telephoto lens. 😦
Thanks so much for dropping by for cocktail hour. It was sure great to see you all again. I really haven’t had a very exciting or interesting month, but I hope to have more adventurous things to report when I return from Iceland. I hope you’ll share what you’ve been up to. I may not be able to answer you until after August 25.
Enjoy the rest of your summer! I’m so ready for fall and cooler weather. 🙂